Here we talk about how ones mind understands things or situations. This can have so many interpretations. Way of life, Attitude to words things in general, etc
We come as people with individual personalities. I’d like to think so.
Individual personalities can easily be understood or not. Some people tend to take things or situations a little too extreme and some people a little lightly. There’s no in between here.
Some situations in life can easily get misunderstood especially when there are no facts or proof to back them up.
Like we have a glass half full. You see right there “half full”
Some people may not see it that way, they’ll like to think it as a “half empty”
That’s where we talk about mindset.
We aren’t meant to see or understand certain ways of live the same way. We may see some similarities but not same. Every situation seems different from different angle. I could see the number 6 and someone else can see a number 9. Depending on where you stand.
How it’s being handled is what makes the most of it.
We should never beat ourselves up for not understanding things the exact same way other people understand things. We aren’t all same.
Some people give credit for peoples hard work and some don’t cause they feel maybe their hard work was not enough.
Some people like to see a negative situation and dwell in it. Some actually take that negative and turn it into positive thoughts. Making the most out of what you’ve learnt from it.
Everyone’s mindset is different. You either get it, accept it or you don’t. Don’t fault yourself for doing either. It’s how you are.
I hear people say it’s your mindset that defines you. It’s actually true.
Try not to be so hard on yourself for thinking differently. It may work out fine for you.
Don’t get me wrong here, having a fantastic mindset actually makes one go a long way in life. Like I said. It’s a fantastic mindset.
It could be either way. Do not expect everyone to think the way you do. It only causes unnecessary stress. And really, who needs that? So let’s try to keep our minds collectively in tact…
Stay cool and calm always 😍
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This is a great post on a subject that one has to deal with everyday. Even my husband and I have to practice grace because we do not think the same on several things. He is an introvert, a very private person, soft spoken, a giver of anything he has got. Me, an introvert, talk to anyone and tell usually way too much about me. Loud at times, not as giving as he is, I am a let me check this out giver. Living in two different countries has expanded our, world view”, I now live in a small town where most of my friends have lived in the same spot all their lives. So, consequently I tend to think a little different on many subjects. I continue to learn I do not have to share my opinion or knowledge in every conversation. The more questions I ask of the women I am around the more i understand how they think which in turn helps me to know when to speak or not to speak. It’s a great way to practice grace toward others. I love that you wrote on this subject. Blessings.
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That’s exactly what I’m talking about. Good to know that I can share this with you as much people as I can. It’s okay not to have same thoughts about anything with anyone. The way you think and act must have worked out well for you. I am who I am. I think quite differently and it has worked out well for me and my relationships. Be it family or friends. The most important thing is never to feel the need to change yourself, especially if it can’t be helped.
Thanks for wonderful comment. I’m glad you like this. Stay blessed 😊
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Yeah! Mind set defines one but a lot of people tend to give up when they have a fantastic mind set which isn’t yeilding any good in their life while some don’t even have too mindset where as every thing in life forthem is near perfect. What do we think about this?
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Yes that’s true, but it’s left to each individual to decide for themselves what they need to do. You can’t really make decisions for people, especially if they aren’t willing. So, most times we try to help push people to think a certain way and that might either cause a rift or make them be better. It’s really up to individual person. Every way we think, whether it’s a fantastic mindset or not, would work for each person depending on who they are…
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